Frequently Asked Questions

Sober living provides a transitional, safe environment for people in recovery as they progress out of an inpatient or detox facility. At Tharros, clients are supported and provided with structure to reintegrate and re-connect to society, free of drugs and alcohol. Many clients find strength through shared experiences and comradery that exists within the Tharros House community.

Tharros offers a significant amount of structure, and we empower you to choose what is good for you. For example, you can participate in Yoga and Mindfulness, or evening reflections meetings, if you find those helpful. We do ask that if you choose Tharros, you commit to attending morning meetings Monday–Friday, our Sunday meeting, and some community activities (approximately 5–8 hours per week total commitment). The remaining structure offered is optional, and most clients participate in a good portion of that optional structure.

Each person is unique, so it's best to look at each as an individual. Research shows the longer someone in recovery stays in a structured, sober environment, the better the chances of sustained sobriety. We ask clients to commit to a minimum of 30 days, but we encourage you to consider and plan on 6 months to 1 year, or longer (total, including less structured housing).

We understand the trials of wanting to get back into work and life obligations. We feel confident that, together, we can work out a solution that allows each client a successful plan. You are the one deciding what you need, and we will provide options for continued support through less structured housing, continued accountability testing, and other supports.

Our sober living is located steps from the center of Lexington and easily accessible to public transportation. We also provide reasonable local transportation at no additional cost. This may include recovery appointments, gym, market trips, and the Alewife red line T-Station. We also allow residents to use Uber and Lyft as economical means of transportation, both of which are readily available in our area.

You are able to have a car at Tharros. We typically ask that for the first two weeks you use our transportation, then have full access to your car.

As we mentioned, each individual is unique. If getting back into work or school is of great concern, let us know. We understand that you may feel like you've wasted time with your addiction. While it may not be the best choice to get back to working right away, we will work with you to achieve your goals safely.

Tharros House guarantees a safe, supportive and sober environment. Your personal sobriety is your journey, and we're here to provide tools and to support your success. All clients regularly undergo random urine testing conducted by an outside lab and by Tharros House team members, who may require instant UA tests at any time. Clients should expect to be tested 3 times per week, or more.

Absolutely! Building community here at Tharros is part of your recovery. With our open door policy, former residents who continue with their sobriety are welcome to visit Tharros House.

Please contact our team at 617.697.1218 or reach out via our contact page, linked at the top and bottom of the page. We will help you determine if Tharros House is a good fit. We know many resources in the area, and our goal is to help you get the best care for your situation — even if we are not a match for your needs.

Insurance companies view sober living environments as a person's residence, which means they do not cover the cost of Tharros, or any other sober living home. There are a number of sober homes in Massachusetts that offer various levels of service and support. At Tharros, our experienced team, working alongside outside clinical and recovery providers, offers highly individualized support designed to help each resident build a strong foundation for lasting recovery and greater independence.

Our fees are $12,500.00 per month for a double room. Single rooms are also available, starting at $15,500.00 per month. Our fees are comprehensive and include transportation to local recovery meetings and appointments, household essentials, food for all meals, cooking instruction with private chefs, weekly take-out nights, activities, groups, individual case management, and 24/7 staff support.

For individuals who are ready for greater independence and a less structured environment, including those returning to full-time work, we invite you to learn more about Teras House. Costs at Teras start at $6500.

Once you have developed a strong foundation in recovery, there often comes a point when you are ready to transition from the level of structure and support provided at Tharros. For some residents, the goal is to rebuild family relationships and ultimately return home. For others, the next step is a more independent living environment while maintaining connection, accountability, and a recovery-focused community.

Tharros offers several options designed to support this transition.

Teras House, located in Lexington, provides a less structured environment while maintaining 24/7 staff support and accountability. Teras is well suited for individuals who are ready for greater independence while continuing to benefit from many of the supports available at Tharros.

For those ready to take another step toward independent living, Belmont House and Bowman House offer a higher level of autonomy. These homes provide live-in support rather than a 24/7 staff team and are designed for individuals who have established a solid foundation in recovery and are ready to manage their day-to-day lives more independently.

Residents continue to benefit from engagement with the Tharros team, including weekly one-on-one mentoring, Sunday meetings, recovery accountability, and opportunities to participate in activities and community events. The goal is to provide the benefits of continued connection, accountability, and community without the same degree of day-to-day structure.

It is common for residents to spend approximately 4–8 months at Tharros and/or Teras before transitioning to Belmont House or Bowman House, although every individual and recovery path is different. These homes can provide an important bridge between structured sober living and fully independent living.

Belmont House and Bowman House are each $5,000 per month for a private room.